Forget the instant mixes—true Southern banana pudding is built on a foundation of warm, vanilla bean custard and layers of perfectly ripened fruit. This version is “the real deal,” featuring a rich, stovetop-cooked custard that softens classic vanilla wafers into a cake-like texture. We finish it with a sky-high toasted meringue for an elegant touch, creating a dessert that is creamy, comforting, and quintessentially Southern.

Ultimate Southern Banana Pudding
Ingredients
Method
- Layer the base: In a 9x13 inch glass baking dish or a deep trifle bowl, create a layer of vanilla wafers followed by a layer of sliced bananas. Repeat until you have 2–3 layers of each, ending with bananas.
- Separate the eggs: Ensure your whites are in a completely clean, grease-free bowl for the meringue later.
- In a heavy saucepan, whisk together ¾ cup sugar, flour, and salt.
- Gradually whisk in the milk and egg yolks until well combined.
- Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly with a wooden spoon or whisk, until the mixture thickens enough to coat the back of a spoon (about 10–15 minutes). Do not let it boil vigorously.
- Remove from heat and stir in the vanilla extract.
- Immediately pour the warm custard over the layers of wafers and bananas, ensuring it seeps down into the gaps.
- Preheat oven to 350°F.
- Beat the 4 egg whites and cream of tartar until soft peaks form.
- Gradually add ½ cup sugar, 1 tablespoon at a time, beating until stiff, glossy peaks form.
- Spread the meringue over the hot custard, sealing it all the way to the edges of the dish.
- Bake for 10–12 minutes until the peaks are golden brown.
